Spark Joy: The Transformative Magic of Surrounding Yourself With the Right People
The Grace of Positive Connections
“You cannot change the people around you but you can change the people you choose to be around”
We often face situations where people try to bring us down. You will meet people who feel intimidated by your uniqueness and will do their best to make you feel weird. Please rebuff their antics.
You have the power to close the door on their negativity.
Don't accept anyone devaluing you, when you allow it once it becomes easier for them to keep repeating.
It may feel scary to stand alone with no one by your side, but trust me, the pain of facing your fears is much easier than the pain of regret for not standing up for yourself.
Let me share a personal story.
I was having a rough day and needed to escape all the negativity that had been building up. I decided to head to my favourite lunch spot hoping to find some comfort. As I walked in, expecting to see some familiar faces, I was met with an unwelcoming atmosphere which caught me by surprise. The usual warm hello’s and smiles were missing, leaving me a bit sad. I turned to my phone, to take my mind off things.
Then suddenly out of nowhere, a server came up to me, radiating warmth and kindness. Her smile reached her eyes and it was like a balm to my soul. Her positive energy was so contagious, I couldn’t help but smile back.
Isn't it remarkable how such simple acts of compassion keep the flame of humanity alive? It’s really in these small and unassuming moments, we find the true essence of our existence. As I left the restaurant my sadness had melted away, replaced by peaceful gratitude. I was convinced that the arrival of this angelic server was more than a coincidence. It was a clear indication that I was on the right track by listening to my heart and refusing to let fear control me.
There are times when we must stand up for ourselves, even if it feels terrifying. It’s in these very moments we discover our true strength. Don't waste your precious time on people who don't value or respect you. Surround yourself with those who ignite joy in your heart, who make you laugh and shower you with love.
Choose wisely and embrace those who uplift you.
In their presence, you'll discover the genuine beauty and joy of life.